· VV: How long have you been a TIR trainer?
Henry: I became a certified/accredited TIR trainer February 2004. However, I
led seminars and TIR workshops (with supervision) regularly for a while before
that.
· VV: What inspired you to become a TIR trainer?
Henry: Taking TIR training myself. I was fascinated with the process of
teaching others this extraordinary subject, as well as the amount students
valued the training. I also love to share such knowledge and work in ways that
empower others.
· VV: What do you find rewarding about it?
Henry: The looks on people's faces when they let go of something that has
plagued them for decades - especially when it's something they have already
tried 10 different therapies on. Hearing the successes during
supervision meeting with trainees who have only just started practicing, and
seeing the delight that it brings them. Now that I have given regular
workshops in this subject for a number of years, I can say that the comments I
get from my students and clients continue to surprise and move me. For example
a student recently told me how astonished he was when first of all, he had many
new insights and was eager to write them done before forgetting them. However,
he was even more astonished that the relief and change achieved naturally remained, in spite of forgetting what the insights were. This
in behavioural psychology has been called ‘extinction’. Without the need for
remembering new ways of thinking or acting, psychological and emotional
problems can simply vanish permanently without the need for maintenance. This
is very common indeed within TIR and Metapsychology practice. In fact the
approach consists of a vast range of tools and strategies for achieving this
with varying situations and client types.
· VV: Are you willing to travel to deliver training,
if so under what conditions?
Henry: Absolutely. I have already given workshops abroad. In French and Italian
speaking countries I should not need an interpreter as I am familiar with those
languages. I hope to get my Spanish good enough too. I have also already given
workshops in New York City.
I am happy to travel but prefer shorter
trips as I have a lot going on in the UK.
· VV: Do you have a private practice?
Henry: Yes, I do. TIR UK has
offices in London
by the Oval on the northern line. I personally see clients most days and also
supervise a number of other facilitators/counsellors who work from the same
premises. I also run a government funded project for traumatised victims of
crime in the London
borough of Lambeth. This we do in conjunction with Victim Support Lambeth.
· VV: Besides TIR, what other things are you
interested in?
Henry: Music, competitive Latin dancing - I think the concept of the dance can
be applied to enhance how we do many things. In the field of
philosophy/personal development I like Eugene Gendlin's Focusing, Buddhist
philosophies, Mindfulness meditation, Sufism, the Theosophical Society, the
Scientific and Medical Network, cycling and a whole host of other things.
· VV: Describe your professional background?
Henry: I have a Master of Science degree in Rational Emotive and Cognitive
Behavioural therapy from Goldsmith’s College London and a bachelors
degree from University College London. Soon after graduating with the MSc I
wrote and published on the subject of case-formulated mindfulness-based
cognitive behavioural therapy (click to see paper).
I have a keen interest in the integration of mindfulness with cognitive
behavioural theory. I think TIR and metapsychology have a lot to contribute to
such integration. Previous to my cognitive behavioural training I was also a
student of Humanistic and Gestalt related therapies (Pellin). Looking at my
entire career, including before I was a therapist, a common thread has been
teaching. I began with teaching English as a foreign language, and have since
taught: Arabic, French, Italian, Spanish, Latin, Comparative philosophy, Rock
singing, French literature, Piano and musical harmony. Doing all that was a
great lead in to teaching TIR and other therapies. I have always greatly
enjoyed teaching. I have also worked as a translator and in steel trading and
exporting electronic components from the Far-East to Europe.
· VV: What other courses are you currently teaching?
Henry: A one day introductory workshop to TIR. Thematic TIR and Unblocking -
this workshop completes the level 1 TIRW training after the introductory TIR
workshop. I also generally teach TIR within the context of mindfulness as this
helps TIR facilitators understand why TIR is designed the way it is and what
makes it work. I also regularly teach the Schema workshop - this is a
metapsychology workshop that teaches procedures for clarifying goals/values and
for aligning the various parts of ourselves and our environment, so that we can
actually reach our goals/move in the direction of our values. When people see
clearly a path to their higher goals/values it is a great motivator in life.
Goals seem much more within their grasp. The training also clarifies the links
between what is going on in one’s head and one’s world. Gerbode calls this the
person-world polarity. I also teach cognitive behavioural techniques with
Mindfulness.